Dear Mr. Dad: My husband and I are going to Orlando to visit some theme parks with our kids, ages 4 and 8. We’re all super excited, but I’m worried about how to make sure the kids have a good time and the adults still feel that we’ve had a vacation. Any suggestions?
I am so jealous. My 12-year old daughter and I love roller coasters, and for years we’ve been talking about doing an extended coaster tour. It’ll happen one of these days.
But let’s get back to you. Going to amusement parks with kids as young as yours and still having fun yourself will be challenging. But it’s definitely possible.
Here are some ideas that will help:
▪ Go online before you get in line – Make an adults-only visit to each park’s website. Find out their hours, age and height restrictions, ride closures, whether you can bring in outside food, whether they have lockers and so on. Most sites have recommendations for families with young children.
Once you’ve mastered all that, go back and visit the sites with the kids – but show them only the things that they’ll actually be able to do. There’s no sense getting them excited about rides they can’t go on. Then, have them put together a list of their favorites.
▪ Follow the parks on social media – You can get money-saving discounts and followers-only access. Download the apps for each park you’re planning to visit. Besides including maps of the park – complete with where all the bathrooms are – the apps usually include schedules for shows and photo ops with characters, restaurant menus and more.
▪ Plan your meals – To get your money’s worth, you’re going to want to stay at the park all day, and you’ll need to eat. Of course, it’s more convenient to buy all your meals and snacks in the park. These days your food options go way beyond burgers, fries and fried donuts.
Most now offer all sorts of ethnic options, and you’ll almost always be able to find fruit, veggies and other healthy foods. If money is an issue, bring as much food as you’re allowed to (details will be on the park’s website).
▪ Plan your day – The kids (and maybe you) will probably need some breaks during the day. If you’re staying at a nearby hotel, consider going back for a nap and a dip in the pool. Then hit the park again. If not, all the parks have air-conditioned theaters that are great rest spots.
▪ Stay cool – Everyone needs a hat, plenty of sunscreen and a water bottle. No exceptions. According to ThemeParkInsider.com, “more visitors suffer from sunburn, rashes, heat exhaustion and heatstroke than all other injuries put together.”
▪ Start really, really early – If you get to the park before it opens, you can dash to the most popular rides before the lines start getting crazy.
▪ Think safety – If your child has a tendency to disappear into crowds, consider a wrist bungee or harness. A lot of kids (and adults) find them horribly embarrassing, so the mere threat of using one might be enough to keep the kids nearby. You might also consider one of the many GPS trackers; some can be worn on the wrist, others attached to the kids’ clothing.
▪ Split up – If you and your husband want to go on adult rides, think about having one of you stay with the kids while the other goes in the single-rider lines, which are almost always shorter. Then switch.
Remember, you’re on vacation. Relax and try to see the parks – and the world – through your children’s eyes.
Armin Brott is the author of “The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Dads-to-Be.”